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Originally Posted by olemissmom2017
So if there would be one she would really not like, don't rank in the three and then that won't be the bid?
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There are better people to ask about RFM than me, but I think I can explain this one.
If she doesn't list a group on her bid card, she is not eligible to receive a bid from them. It's the only time in the process that a PNM is actually cutting a group. That has consequences, though, so all PNMs are encouraged to list all of the groups that have preffed them.
If she attends all parties that she is invited to attend, and lists all of the sororities that she prefs on her bid card, she is guaranteed a bid somewhere. If she doesn't match on the bid lists, she will be placed somewhere. Different schools handle that differently. Some place the "extra" women in their first choice, and some use other methods. They try to keep the chapters balanced.
If she doesn't list all of the sororities that she preffed, she is not guaranteed a bid. If she doesn't place, she doesn't place. She will remain eligible for COB (informal rush, open rush, whatever you want to call it) and eligible for colony recruitment.
If she hates one of her pref groups, she should understand that she may get a bid from them if she lists them.
She should think very carefully about whether she hates them or whether she just doesn't like them as much as her other choice(s). If she lists a group on her bid card, and then refuses a bid from them, she will not be eligible for COB for one year or for colony recruitment this year.
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