I'd say the best way to test the climate for any organization would be to spend time with the members in person. If your mother or sister are active, you should see if it's okay to attend some chapter events with them, like community service projects, luncheons, galas, etc.
On GreekChat, or any other message board, you will only meet the members who enjoy being on the internet, which is a small percentage of the kinds you will meet in person.
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