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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
Do not assume that your friend, the VP, has any more say than anyone else. Sororities are usually very democratic so the leadership doesn't get to dictate to the rest of the chapter.
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This.
Membership section is private to each group, but there are some general things that we can tell you.
It's usually a group decision. One person can't usually guarantee you a bid, even if she is an officer. Even being friends with a small faction of the chapter isn't a guarantee.
Lots of factors usually go into the decision - grades, extracurriculars, risk management considerations... Your friends may have pulled for you, but the chapter as a whole looks at all the factors, not just who you are friends with.
Even if you were a great candidate, many chapters have more women applying for a COB spot than they have spots. The chapter as a whole may have liked you, but not had enough spots for everyone they liked. Your friends may have pulled really hard for you, but someone else may have had a group of their friends pulling really hard for her, too.
We don't know. Your friends can't tell you. Membership selection is private.
Sorry. It's tough.
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