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Originally Posted by IUHoosiergirl88
Maybe I'm not worthy of understanding these Southern pearl clutching issues, but why would I care if someone's parent was found guilty of murder or something of that nature? That PNM may be estranged from that family member and likely has little to no connection to that individual at that point. It's not as if that PNM was the murderer! Perhaps that PNM wanted a new start away from those issues. What if the PNM had been a victim of domestic violence and the rec writer mentioned that?
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Exactly. I feel as though holding something against the PNM that actually has nothing to do with them or their character is going a bit too far. I have some family members who have done some things that I wouldn't like advertised. You don't get to choose your family, and you definitely can't control their actions.
I would like to think I'm pretty awesome

and I wouldn't want something that a family member did to hold any weight over whether or not I was offered a bid.