sorority advice needed

[NutBrnHair]

Originally Posted by kallyssasmommy

1st and foremost let me address the issue of spelling and grammar so many of you brought up. A. I was typing my responses back to some of you very late at night and was tired. B. In the moment I didn't care about spelling or grammar I was just responding. C. Even if I did really use bad grammar and suck that bad at spelling who gives a hoot.

I care and yes, I judged you.

Originally Posted by kallyssasmommy

I will disclose the 4 sororities Kappa Delta, Alpha Delta Phi, Zeta, and Alpha Phi.

Wow, ADPhi hasn't been around for years!

[33girl]

Originally Posted by NutBrnHair

Wow, ADPhi hasn't been around for years!

Actually, they are still around and have something that no one in Junior League or any NPC group will ever, ever have. That something is.....





...........






PENISES!!!

http://www.alphadeltaphi.org/

(The chapters of ADPhi that broke away and became co-ed are Alpha Delta Phi Society, a separate organization.)

I'm guessing an "h" snuck in where it shouldn't have and she meant ADPi.

And since I apparently offended Junior League by suggesting they might not take anyone that wants in, I will say that competitiveness can occur in ANY organization. Chamber of Commerce, Jaycees, hospital auxiliary, PTA, you name it - and yes I am talking about organizations for ADULTS.

I'm wondering how Hartofsec knows that Old_Row is still in school...or thinks it knows that. (I'm not even assuming anymore that anyone is male or female.)

Oh and incidentally for the oh so charming poster who quotes me like it's your job, I didn't say that joining the nontrad students group would be a substitute for being in a sorority.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfvTwv5o1Qs

[Hartofsec]

Originally Posted by 33girl

And since I apparently offended Junior League by suggesting they might not take anyone that wants in, I will say that competitiveness can occur in ANY organization. Chamber of Commerce, Jaycees, hospital auxiliary, PTA, you name it - and yes I am talking about organizations for ADULTS.

That isn't at all what you suggested, this is what you stated:

Originally Posted by 33girl

And OR is so right about the Junior League being just as, if not more competitive than a sorority in some places. That's why I kind of inwardly chortle when people suggest it (i.e. if you thought sorority rush was full of rejectment, you ain't seen NOTHING yet).

It appears that the assumptions were your own. Your comments (made with AUTHORITY) were based on nothing more than a negative stereotype -- the same sort of "tent talk" that is discouraged here.

Originally Posted by 33girl

I'm wondering how Hartofsec knows that Old_Row is still in school...or thinks it knows that.

She has admonished me for being her mother's age (a woman of my "advanced age" lol). She said she was in school upthread.

[pbear19]

Originally Posted by Hartofsec

That isn't at all what you suggested, this is what you stated:

Actually, what 33girl said is true. READ what she said. She said that it is competitive in SOME PLACES. Not everywhere. Some places. That is perfectly true. And yes, I can say that with some authority, since I have been a dues-paying member of 3 different AJLI-affiliated Leagues in 3 different parts of the country since 2002, including being a delegate to an ODI where I met women from countless other Leagues and learned about their processes. There are some Leagues that are extremely competitive. It may not be the norm anymore, but that doesn't make 33girl's statement anything less than absolutely true.

(And I am quite certain I am not in any kind of clique on GC.)