Hesitant to join Alumnae Chapter

[agzg]

Depends on the size of the group.

[adpiucf]

Go to a meeting. If you get a bad vibe, don't go back. This way, at least you've tried. Also, take heart in the fact that alumnae membership is very different from collegiate membership. You're a lifetime member, and as an alumna you decide how involved you want to be, if at all. So go to a meeting. Pay your dues and go to the events you want to go to.

[HQWest]

You'll never know unless you try! In the meantime, you could be missing out on a chance to make new friends. I have had a couple times in my life where I crossed paths with someone years later and they either no longer cared about a past problem or put it behind them. (Including one person who confessed that I never liked you cause so-and-so said such and such, and now it turns out so-and-so was a pathological liar all along - I can't believe I listened to her bad talk people!)

[33girl]

Originally Posted by agzg

Depends on the size of the group.

Yes. It also depends on why you didn't get along - were you just two very different people who couldn't find common ground, or did something actually happen between the two of you?