It's weird that almost all of the threads (maybe all of them) that HartofSec replies in get closed.
To the OP: I was surprised at the variety of women in each chapter on my campus. There were the hard core party girls and the "stay a virgin until I get married" girls on the straight and narrow. I was somewhere in between, but did not (and still do not) drink & party. I definitely had sisters that embarrassed me and probably embarrassed the name "Delta Gamma" -- but it is part of college (and there were also girls on my campus who gave the other chapters questionable reputations as well), like many have said. As long as they were staying legal and safe and it did not go against our bylaws (drinking at certain functions, hazing, drinking in letters, etc.), then there isn't much I could do.
I did find girls in my chapter that were more like me...and now that all of my pledge sisters are 30 years old, we've mostly calmed down, gotten married, and started little families. AND we enjoy our sisterhood more than ever.
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