Could I wait?
YES!!
It so happens that just yesterday, I went out and bought a chastity ring (which resembles a wedding band only it's sterling silver and has the word "Purity" on it).
Lemme just say this: While I am by not physically a virgin, I have NEVER made love to a woman, even when I was married. I think the biggest reason was because my spirit was impure and I was never focused on the woman I was with while in bed.
The only thing I have to show for my times of intimacy was a lot of cheap thrills, anxiety attacks, and hurt feelings (mine and hers). I'm sorry, but that experience in the front seat of a '90 Honda Civic did not and could never teach me about true intimacy.
IMHO I have matured to a point where I don't want to meet body to body so much as I want to meet soul to soul and spirit to spirit with a woman. So I don't feel any anxiety about waiting to get married to connect with my mate. I haven't missed anything in doing so, and I have nothing to lose.
Just my 2 cents.
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