And I don't know if formal is mandatory for you, but if it isn't, and you truly don't want to go...Don't.
The issue is that for some groups/chapters, the cost of the formal is included in your dues...so you pay for it whether you go or not. (I only learned about this through GC.)
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The issue is that for some groups/chapters, the cost of the formal is included in your dues...so you pay for it whether you go or not. (I only learned about this through GC.)
Ah, I see. Yes, I learned something new, also.
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