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Originally Posted by pnmfosho
Also, my definition of their "optimistic" is showing me how to do the hand symbol for pictures, and specifically finding ME on FB and messaging me to say they were upset when they didn't have to. They told me to keep their sorority in mind and that they would be keeping me in mind as well should I rush again. Also, I haven't gotten much advice yet, just insults on how I wasn't good enough for any sorority I liked..
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No one insulted you. We are simply saying that the people who contacted you may have given you inaccurate advice, without intending to do so - going by how THEY felt, instead of how the sorority as a whole felt. 3 women out of nearly a hundred is not a lot.
There were some girls I LOVED and would have wanted to be my sister, and pulled for them extra hard, but the rest of the sorority didn't feel the same. In retrospect, they were correct.
So, go through rush again, get recs again, and try to stay in a better frame of mind.
PS: It would be in your best interests to delete the part of your post talking about why you are glad you didn't take the bid from the other group.
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