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Originally Posted by CBJcarter7
Are my only two options to either become a GDI or continue on with my current fraternity even if I don't fit in or get along with any of the guys?
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Your two main options -- if your fraternity is like most -- is to join the chapter at new school as an active collegiate or to become an alumnus member (not a GDI).
If you're talking about an NIC fraternity, the rules theoretically allow you to be initiated into a new fraternity if your current fraternity (HQ) confirms in writing to the new fraternity (HQ) that you are no longer a member of current fraternity. I say theoretically because some (many?) fraternities -- whether as a matter of national policy or chapter policy -- still will not consider you regardless of whether you have been released from your current fraternity. The fact that you were ever initiated into another fraternity would be a deal-breaker all by itself.
The last option is to go to new school and lie about your current fraternity. Aside from the total dishonor involved in that, imagine how your new brothers will feel when they find out (as they likely will sooner or later) that you lied to them to get a bid.
Beyond that, co-sign on what 33girl said.
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