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As always, listen to 33. But I would say, try to push the limits of your comfort zone. If you nudge your way into a conversation or say something as simple as "can I go along" when you hear a group of sisters making plans, they very well may say, "duh, of course!"
If you're a strong personality (me) you forget others may need a little encouragement to jump in. Try to bridge the gap and be a little more out there so the girls who are really out there notice you. As a different kind of personality, I know it's very easy to assume everyone knows they're welcome.
If you find you are making an effort to put yourself out there and you still feel like you're getting the cold shoulder, you have a greater set of issues to confront. Hopefully that's not the case and you'll find a little effort on your part will pay off with stronger friendships and great stories to tell later.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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