Former Penn State Coach Arrested

[Mevara]

Possible 9th victim contacts cops in Sandusky case

Mothers Of Alleged Sandusky Victims Speak Out

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

I'm sorry, could you point out to me where I said I was upset because a guy who may have looked the other way at a rape allegation is leaving the university.. Because I don't remember saying that.

Calm down. I didn't say you said that. I just don't think Paterno's resignation is all that sad in comparison to the preventable events that preceded it.

I can think that, right?

[KSigkid]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I don't think Paterno's imminent resignation is sad at all. I think the ongoing rape of children, with Paterno among others looking the other way, is sad as hell.

It's especially not sad with all that he did to make Penn State appear to be this shining example of how college football is supposed to be, when he knewSandusky had a predilection for raping little boys. I'd rather hear about PSU football players taking gifts of cars from boosters and grade fabrication rather than this.

Agreed. It's incredible that someone like Paterno let this go so far.

Let's not kid ourselves: Paterno has more power than anyone at that school, including the administration. If he went to the administration and wanted this information taken to the authorities, they would have done it.

[als463]

Originally Posted by southbymidwest

As a Virginia resident and wife of a very proud Hokie graduate, I can emphatically tell you NO. THERE IS NO COMPARISON. A trusted coach and authority figure did not shoot those students and professors. There is no shame in being part of the Virginia Tech nation.

There should be no shame in being part of the PSU nation, as it was one individual, but that seems not to be the case at this point for many.

southbymidwest, I am sorry if I offended you. I did not mean to. What I was trying to say, which may have come off as insensitive (so I do apologize) was that people shouldn't tell other people how to feel. Virginia Tech is an incredible school and I can see why your husband should be VERY proud of his alma mater. I'm sorry if I upset you. I am just really disgusted with what is going on and I didn't know how to explain why people from other schools who didn't get what I was trying to say about being upset that they shouldn't tell me (or others) how to feel.

[Mevara]

The thing that shocks me most is some of these cases were reported to the authorities back in 1998!! How is it only now 13 years later he is finally being charged?!

[ThetaPrincess24]

Originally Posted by KSigkid

Let's not kid ourselves: Paterno has more power than anyone at that school, including the administration. If he went to the administration and wanted this information taken to the authorities, they would have done it.

Agreed!

[kddani]

Originally Posted by Mevara

The thing that shocks me most is some of these cases were reported to the authorities back in 1998!! How is it only now 13 years later he is finally being charged?!

The district attorney of that county disappeared in April 2005 and was just recently declared dead (never found a body). There are all kinds of conspiracy theories on that one. He investigated the '98 incident.

Just a little while ago, ESPN showed Penn State students rallying outside of JoePa's house. No, not telling him to resign. Begging him to stay. Disgusting.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by kddani

Just a little while ago, ESPN showed Penn State students rallying outside of JoePa's house. No, not telling him to resign. Begging him to stay. Disgusting.

Saw this on Sportcenter. Disgusting.

His lack of action here makes him just as guilty in my eyes.

No, I don't care that (as some say) "hey may not have gotten the full story from the people who told him, so maybe he mistakenly didn't think it was that big of a deal."

When you hear about something like that going on, I feel like it doesn't matter how much you were/were not told. You should take it upon yourself to see what's going on. Especially since this is your program.

[psusue]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I don't think Paterno's imminent resignation is sad at all. I think the ongoing rape of children, with Paterno among others looking the other way, is sad as hell.

While I understand that you mean that JoePa's resignation is not as sad as what happened to these children, it is still sad. And I think that it is also unwarranted; JoePa is not to blame here. Sandusky, Curley, and and Schultz are. McQueery and JoePa did what they were supposed to do-- which is to follow the chain of command.

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

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I don't know what Paterno really knew, nor will I ever (most likely). And if this is how his time at Penn State has to end, so be it. But it doesn't make it any less heart-breaking.

Thank you. Every conversation I've overheard today is about this topic. I've talked about it in most classes. This school's heart is breaking for the families of this tragedy and how our administration is making a mess of it. PSU is more than a university-- it's a family. When something like this happens to one of us, it happens to all of us. But I cannot let the actions of a disgusting few affect my view of this university that has done so much for me.

Originally Posted by KSigkid

Agreed. It's incredible that someone like Paterno let this go so far.

Let's not kid ourselves: Paterno has more power than anyone at that school, including the administration. If he went to the administration and wanted this information taken to the authorities, they would have done it.

JoePa is only a man. I think we all forget this when we wear our rose colored glasses and drink the Kool-Aid, but he is. He did what he was supposed to do. He followed up with the case after reporting it, but child abuse cases take awhile to move, legendary head football coach or not. His superiors said they were taking care of it and he believed them. I can't say I would have done differently.

Originally Posted by kddani

The district attorney of that county disappeared in April 2005 and was just recently declared dead (never found a body). There are all kinds of conspiracy theories on that one. He investigated the '98 incident.

Just a little while ago, ESPN showed Penn State students rallying outside of JoePa's house. No, not telling him to resign. Begging him to stay. Disgusting.

Let me repeat-- JoePa is being made a scapegoat by the media because he is the most famous person involved. Period. He has not been charged with anything and I don't think that they have the grounds to try. I stand behind this man until he is charged and convicted of a crime. Otherwise he has my support. He and McQueery did as they should have and trusted the wrong people. It is the other three that should burn for this, not them.

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Saw this on Sportcenter. Disgusting.

His lack of action here makes him just as guilty in my eyes.

No, I don't care that (as some say) "hey may not have gotten the full story from the people who told him, so maybe he mistakenly didn't think it was that big of a deal."

When you hear about something like that going on, I feel like it doesn't matter how much you were/were not told. You should take it upon yourself to see what's going on. Especially since this is your program.

He did act. That is what I'm getting at here. Maybe it seems odd to you that I feel the need to vindicate him on this but believe me I cannot rest until I try. This man is more than a football coach to us-- he's like the grandfather of the university. Several members of my family have met him, people I've known have been friends with him, he represents all that Penn State is to us-- pride, loyalty, honor, and tradition. Do I believe that he did all that he could have done in this situation? Perhaps not everything, and this will haunt him for the rest of his life if it's true. But he did do something. He reported what was told to him. He checked in on the situation. He did what he was supposed to do.

This is a horrible situation to be sure and I pray for every child and family involved. But let us not get into a pitchfork frenzy and forget the facts. The facts are that neither JoePa nor McQueery were charged with anything. As such they cannot be convicted and remain innocent in my eyes. Graham Spanier is being investigated, as are the other three. If they are found to be guilty, I will wash my hands of them. But not of Joe and McQueery. Honestly I think they are being scapegoated and while he may be made to resign, it will not be a reflection on him or his life's work but an administration that protected an unworthy and hugely effed up a lot of lives.

[kddani]

Originally Posted by psusue

While I understand that you mean that JoePa's resignation is not as sad as what happened to these children, it is still sad. And I think that it is also unwarranted; JoePa is not to blame here. Sandusky, Curley, and and Schultz are. McQueery and JoePa did what they were supposed to do-- which is to follow the chain of command.



Thank you. Every conversation I've overheard today is about this topic. I've talked about it in most classes. This school's heart is breaking for the families of this tragedy and how our administration is making a mess of it. PSU is more than a university-- it's a family. When something like this happens to one of us, it happens to all of us. But I cannot let the actions of a disgusting few affect my view of this university that has done so much for me.



JoePa is only a man. I think we all forget this when we wear our rose colored glasses and drink the Kool-Aid, but he is. He did what he was supposed to do. He followed up with the case after reporting it, but child abuse cases take awhile to move, legendary head football coach or not. His superiors said they were taking care of it and he believed them. I can't say I would have done differently.



Let me repeat-- JoePa is being made a scapegoat by the media because he is the most famous person involved. Period. He has not been charged with anything and I don't think that they have the grounds to try. I stand behind this man until he is charged and convicted of a crime. Otherwise he has my support. He and McQueery did as they should have and trusted the wrong people. It is the other three that should burn for this, not them.




He did act. That is what I'm getting at here. Maybe it seems odd to you that I feel the need to vindicate him on this but believe me I cannot rest until I try. This man is more than a football coach to us-- he's like the grandfather of the university. Several members of my family have met him, people I've known have been friends with him, he represents all that Penn State is to us-- pride, loyalty, honor, and tradition. Do I believe that he did all that he could have done in this situation? Perhaps not everything, and this will haunt him for the rest of his life if it's true. But he did do something. He reported what was told to him. He checked in on the situation. He did what he was supposed to do.

This is a horrible situation to be sure and I pray for every child and family involved. But let us not get into a pitchfork frenzy and forget the facts. The facts are that neither JoePa nor McQueery were charged with anything. As such they cannot be convicted and remain innocent in my eyes. Graham Spanier is being investigated, as are the other three. If they are found to be guilty, I will wash my hands of them. But not of Joe and McQueery. Honestly I think they are being scapegoated and while he may be made to resign, it will not be a reflection on him or his life's work but an administration that protected an unworthy and hugely effed up a lot of lives.

You're as bad as those idiotic students rallying outside of his house. Regardless of legal obligation, it's a moral obligation. He knew something was going on, and continued to allow it to go on. The few people out there that are sharing your mindset disgust me.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by kddani

You're as bad as those idiotic students rallying outside of his house. Regardless of legal obligation, it's a moral obligation. He knew something was going on, and continued to allow it to go on. The few people out there that are sharing your mindset disgust me.

It's more than a few.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by psusue

While I understand that you mean that JoePa's resignation is not as sad as what happened to these children, it is still sad. And I think that it is also unwarranted; JoePa is not to blame here. Sandusky, Curley, and and Schultz are. McQueery and JoePa did what they were supposed to do-- which is to follow the chain of command.



Thank you. Every conversation I've overheard today is about this topic. I've talked about it in most classes. This school's heart is breaking for the families of this tragedy and how our administration is making a mess of it. PSU is more than a university-- it's a family. When something like this happens to one of us, it happens to all of us. But I cannot let the actions of a disgusting few affect my view of this university that has done so much for me.



JoePa is only a man. I think we all forget this when we wear our rose colored glasses and drink the Kool-Aid, but he is. He did what he was supposed to do. He followed up with the case after reporting it, but child abuse cases take awhile to move, legendary head football coach or not. His superiors said they were taking care of it and he believed them. I can't say I would have done differently.



Let me repeat-- JoePa is being made a scapegoat by the media because he is the most famous person involved. Period. He has not been charged with anything and I don't think that they have the grounds to try. I stand behind this man until he is charged and convicted of a crime. Otherwise he has my support. He and McQueery did as they should have and trusted the wrong people. It is the other three that should burn for this, not them.




He did act. That is what I'm getting at here. Maybe it seems odd to you that I feel the need to vindicate him on this but believe me I cannot rest until I try. This man is more than a football coach to us-- he's like the grandfather of the university. Several members of my family have met him, people I've known have been friends with him, he represents all that Penn State is to us-- pride, loyalty, honor, and tradition. Do I believe that he did all that he could have done in this situation? Perhaps not everything, and this will haunt him for the rest of his life if it's true. But he did do something. He reported what was told to him. He checked in on the situation. He did what he was supposed to do.

This is a horrible situation to be sure and I pray for every child and family involved. But let us not get into a pitchfork frenzy and forget the facts. The facts are that neither JoePa nor McQueery were charged with anything. As such they cannot be convicted and remain innocent in my eyes. Graham Spanier is being investigated, as are the other three. If they are found to be guilty, I will wash my hands of them. But not of Joe and McQueery. Honestly I think they are being scapegoated and while he may be made to resign, it will not be a reflection on him or his life's work but an administration that protected an unworthy and hugely effed up a lot of lives.

I think this is where you and I are going to have to disagree.

[psusue]

Originally Posted by kddani

You're as bad as those idiotic students rallying outside of his house. Regardless of legal obligation, it's a moral obligation. He knew something was going on, and continued to allow it to go on. The few people out there that are sharing your mindset disgust me.

Everyone keeps talking about a moral obligation, but a moral obligation cannot supersede protocol. Obviously now that we are sure that these events have went down we are blaming Joe for his inaction, but had he jumped the gun and called the police himself he could have very well been completely wrong in this and ruined another's life unnecessarily. I know no one likes to think about it, but people can and do accuse others falsely about things like child abuse to ruin a career. One false accusation can ruin a person's life and reputation unjustly. He followed the chain of command and it bit him in the ass. I doubt he will sleep soundly ever again knowing how this turned out. But I don't think he knew what people think he knew and I think he acted appropriately with the information he was given. I repeat, he did what he could have and he is being blamed unjustly. He will burn for another's mistake, but I stand by him. If more information comes out I may change my mind. But until then, my mind is made.

[als463]

psusue,

I understand your feeling that this is more than a university-it is our family. I agree with that a 100 times over. Whether or not you believe JoePa did what all he could have done or should be seen as a bad guy does not bother me as much as you saying that McQueary did what he should have done. Did he STOP the abuse that he was witnessing with his own eyes? I'm not an angry / violent person but, if I witnessed that in front of my own eyes--I would have done a heck of a lot more than just go and "report" it. Sandusky would have lost a whole lot more than respect if I would have seen it. He would have lost a few teeth. You don't walk in on that and just turn away to go "report" it. Maybe I shouldn't advocate for punching him square in the face (or in other places) but, I can say that it sounds like McQueary didn't really confront the problem. As for the Janitor--where is he/ she and why is THAT person not being investigated too? This whole thing makes me sick!

[amIblue?]

Originally Posted by psusue

Everyone keeps talking about a moral obligation, but a moral obligation cannot supersede protocol.

To quote KSUViolet, THIS is where you and I are going to have to disagree. You have got to be kidding. That may be the single dumbest thing I've read about this situation.

I hate to Godwin the thread, but damn...Nazis, protocol, following orders over moral obligation...ring any bells?? Sheesh.