Is it all about looks?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by mtsugreekchic

I hate that I came here to get advice and learn about sororities and recruitment and god forbid, I ask a question and I get anything but answers.

OMG. Really?

You got advice.

I posted very helpful advice, as did several others. Your question was answered.

What more do you want?

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

What more do you want?

Rainbows and sunshine and promises that, despite what she obviously already knows, she'll get her first choice sorority and will be insta-best friends with all her new sisters, and not one of them will judge her by her weight.

Listen, OP, being fat sucks - I know, I've been there. BUT, you can choose to let it stop you from going through recruitment or you can just do it and see how it all shakes out. Also, yeah, you might end up in the stereotyped fat house. If you're looking for sisterhood, that's where you may find it. If you're looking to get into the Hot Barbie House because you think that by sporting HBH letters you'll automatically become a Hot Barbie, you're going to be sorely disappointed regardless of your rush outcome.

[psusue]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Listen, OP, being fat sucks - I know, I've been there. BUT, you can choose to let it stop you from going through recruitment or you can just do it and see how it all shakes out. Also, yeah, you might end up in the stereotyped fat house. If you're looking for sisterhood, that's where you may find it. If you're looking to get into the Hot Barbie House because you think that by sporting HBH letters you'll automatically become a Hot Barbie, you're going to be sorely disappointed regardless of your rush outcome.

Quoted for truth. Also, I think this is one of the frankest discussions I've seen about weight and recruitment so far.