Psi U MC Vito,im not sure about the " i dont love god and im going to hell for telling my fraternity info" angle.. it was to the one person in the world who means more to me than any prior comitmeit i made in life. i think thats how it should be.. she means more to me than any thing that i thought was important before,.. and for her to still kling to those things like that is kinda.... telling about where her devotion lies... i love ka, and FM but my wife comes first.. and i know i shouldnt expect her to tell stuff like that but she def. asked me and i told for all the reasons stated above.. is theta really a "theta before family and husband" type sorit? KA never drove those values home!!!!