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Originally Posted by dnall
I'm a couple years younger than that (I may have rounded up a couple years elsewhere) & she's a couple years older than you're giving her credit for, but you should still be ashamed of yourselves. I wouldn't come on here smacking someone else around over a fresh break up. That's just evil. Especially since it wasn't caused for a lack of love, friendship, or ability to relate, but because of people like yall giving each of us constant shit. If this was an interracial relationship between people of the same age you'd call people giving them crap bad people, but you try to insert yourself into our relationship without even knowing either one of us or how we felt about each other. That's fucked up. I don't care what you think it looks like on the surface. You don't think it bothered us when we figured out the age difference? It did, but love is bigger than that bullshit, or at least I thought it was. But that's it. I'm not commenting on it further, and if you want to keep talking about it then you're fucked up people.
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As someone in an
interracial age gap (more than 15 years) marriage, let me be the first to tell you that anything that happened between you and your lovely is completely on y'all. Nothing anyone outside of the relationship says has any bearing, whatsoever, on the success of the relationship.
You didn't end the relationship because of "constant shit." You ended it, because it wasn't a good relationship.
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