Well my boyfriend is a Sigma Nu and I think that the only thing that interferes once in a while is that we both hold offices in our organizations. I'm New Member Educator and he is their Rush Chair. We are both very committed and that sometimes gets in the way. We have dealt with it so far in a good way - just making time for each other. But I do know that sometimes he doesn't want me to go to other fraternity houses, I do anyways, not because I don't respect him but bc I am not going to stop socializing because he doesn't like it but he trusts me and gives me my space. We are both pretty understanding with mixers, etc. If he has something to do, he does it and vice versa. I know sometimes my sisters bf's don't like them going to mixers, fraternity houses, etc. but they're pretty much like understand or ship out. I think the main factor here is TRUST.
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