Opinions?!

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by anotherchance

If this is the wrong place to post, let me know I will move it.

Theres a website called collegecandy.com that I waste time on all the time. Well there's a new column about sorority life and recruitment da de da da da, I know there's posting after posting about that on here. ANYWAYS, rambling on...I saw this comment from someone and it has kinda stuck with me since I saw it.


Sometimes I feel like my college experience has been a huge disappointment. I didn’t realize how big of a deal sororities were, I came from a small town so no one that I knew of had ever been in one. When I got to school I saw all these pretty girls all together with their letters. I was so intimidated. I wanted to be in one so bad, but really my parents couldn’t afford it and neither could I. I considered rushing the next year (after getting a job!), but I kinda got on bad terms with a girl (well she ended up being on bad terms with everyone and was later kicked out of her sorority for too many standards violations), but I figured if I tried rushing I would just be laughed in my face. I transferred schools and I figured that I was too old for a sorority but one of my classmates invited me to a open bidding event and I was offered a bid. I hung out with the girls a few times but I never felt a connection and I ended up dropping. I know that was my chance right there but why stick with something when I wouldn’t be happy with it? But now looking back I see that I wish I would’ve known about the whole Greek life scene from the beginning. I’m graduating soon and I don’t feel like I had that great of a college experience. Am I putting too much on not being in a sorority? I think they are great and everything, but is it really as glamorous as it seems? I see all these girls that always have something fun to do and friends to be with. I still don’t know that many people at my school so there are alot of times I am lonely and think about my regrets with rushing. Are there other people that feel this way too or should I just get over it?


Now, I understand SOMEWHAT where they are coming from. I got a late start to my sorority and I remember hoping I could find that kind of friendship, but I got a snap bid and wahhlaah I'm a Kappa BUT, I just want to know peoples opinions of this. Sometimes things just stick with you and you want to talk about them. This is my thing. I see that she had a bid to somewhere but later dropped because of "no connection", but is that typical of people who join later in their college years? I know I was a bit older than most of my pledge class but we got along great. Anyways, opinions are appreciated.

No, it's not typical, I don't think. I joined about halfway through college (got my bid as a 2nd semester soph) and I still related pretty well to girls who were younger than me (my Big Sis was a freshman).

That post is kind of why we encourage people to stick it out and see, just because you could potentially regret the decision to leave.

Oh well. Too bad. So sad. Cry me a river.