Regarding my dislike of Kappas, part of it is me being sarcastic and part of it is me being dead serious. There is way too much SGRho/Kappa drama filled history in my memory (which I won't get into), from campuses like mine where we couldn't stand eachother half the time to campuses where it's Indy this and Indy that all day from both orgs. On my campus we were tight with the Sigmas and Ques and there was always some drama with the Kappas (just wow at some of the things that went down). However, I would be lieing if I said that I don't know Kappas that I like but it's not hard for me to dislike them either. On my campus, we literally had a love/hate relationship although ironically today, it's Indy this and Indy that from both orgs...which is strange as hell for me going back there...LOL! Anyway, I think the biggest thing that turns me off from the whole Kappa/SGRho relationship is when Kappas act like it's the most horrible thing for an SGRho to call them frat. I know it's not like that everywhere but respect is due and there is no need to be nasty. I've been to campuses where it's soror this and soror that and it's not coming from my sorors, so it goes both ways. I personally make it my business not to feed into the male ego so although I am never rude when a Kappa calls me soror, I mostly ignore them unless directly spoken to. And I'll stop right here on this subject.