Unsuccessful fall rush at Alabama, questions about possible spring rush. Advice?

[kddani]

Not clear on whether the OP actually attended pref or dropped beforehand.

If she dropped before attending the pref party, shame on her for not giving that chapter a chance. They were the only one who gave her a chance, and if she would've given them the same courtesy perhaps she's be pretty happy right now.

No one advocates joining a group that you absolutely do not like. However, most everyone (at least everyone thinking logically...) advocates seeing recruitment through pref. A lot of things can change your mind.

And at such a competitive greek school, formal recruitment freshman year could be the PNM's only legitimate shot.

[lyrelyre]

Originally Posted by Amicus

My daddy told me that it is better to be 30 and never married than being 40 and paying alimony.

For what it's worth, these are not even mutually exclusive. You could be 30 and never married and paying alimony when you're 40.