How to get more friends in my sorority?

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by caprice89

The "full black" comment was that I am the only person in my sorority that is not Caucasian. However, one other girl is biracial.

I'll take the advice on trying to spend more time with different people and asking them out. Even though when I've tried doing this girls flake out on me. Even my big and my little both had problems keeping dates with me. It was frustrating especially since they were close and hung out with each other more than myself.

In my chapter, everyone is assigned to a committee by exec and I've never been assigned to a committee that I was really interested in.

Overall, I'm just saying there is a lot of favoritism going on and I want to find ways to overlook that and feel like I'm actually welcomed and part of the sisterhood.

Stop being insecure and awkward. Before you can be happy/secure with a group of women, you've got to be happy/secure with yourself. Don't forget that your sorority wanted you or else you wouldn't have gotten a bid in the first place. A sorority isn't the place to be withdrawn and meek. You have to put yourself out there and not be so caught up with what you perceive as favoritism. When you exhibit confidence and joy in being a member, others will see it. Plus, if there really is favoritism going on, let them know it doesn't affect you by having a great time anyway.