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[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna

Why would you not want to warn your sorority about a problem PNM?

A warning does not have to be written. There is no appropriate smiley for that statement but I am sure that everyone knows exactly what I mean.

/slight swerve: I've been contacted via telephone by an employer, because someone I supervised put my name down as a reference, without informing me. Phone calls have always been my preferred method of communication when the reference is less than stellar. /end swerve.

[annabella]

Originally Posted by AzTheta

A warning does not have to be written.

More often than not a post-it note/phone number on a no-rec will garner an immediate response to clarify a delicate situation.
(was that what you were getting at?

[AnchorAlumna]

Originally Posted by annabella

More often than not a post-it note/phone number on a no-rec will garner an immediate response to clarify a delicate situation.
(was that what you were getting at?

Or a call.
But I've had more than 1 alumna tell me, "I hated to say anything." And then the chapter - clueless - pledges the girl.
Sometimes the "no" recs - written or otherwise - are more valuable than the "yes" ones.