UVA/ VA-Tech re-rushing

[Gusteau]

You know, I was going to be mean and then a little voice in my head told me I should "exercise compassion and understanding when dealing with all persons" so here we are...

You haven't really given your sorority that much of a chance. Keep trying to find your place in it, go to events, be involved. If you still don't like it, drop out before initiation. Being anything but the average PNM during recruitment makes it difficult. Pledging and dropping will definitely make it harder, but you're already in that boat so it can't hurt to keep trying to make it work before initiation and deciding where to go from there.

Back to my lane...

[AZTheta]

These two recent threads might help; you can also use the search function effectively and efficiently to find out more information.

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=110936

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=110944


I point out that you've divulged some personally identifying information about yourself and your friend which would make you both very easy to spot should you pursue de-pledging and then going through recruitment a second time.

No one on GC will be able to give you the specific answers that you seek. Reading your post, it appears that you want to know the outcome of the race before you place your bet. Would that we all had that knowledge or that crystal ball.

Whatever you decide, good luck on your journey.

[Xylochick216]

I PMed you.

Also, remember that you're not just joining for 4 years. I know UVA chapters don't always push this, but you're a member for life. There are alumnae chapters all over the place, and I've had an incredibly rewarding experience as an alumnae.