Please Help! I just have questions...

[WCsweet<3]

Alright let's put this in terms similar to your story:

Your girlfriend has decided she want to date this guy only after knowing him for a week. They may have hung out a lot but it has only really been a week that they have known each other. At the same time she has hung out with his good friend (maybe even best friend). The guys are both pretty different but your friend accepts a date from the best friend even though she was only interested in the other one, while he has passed her up so that his friend can date your friend. Now, your friend has only gone on a few dates with this guy but isn't interested although she hasn't really gotten to know him because she was upset that the first guy hadn't asked her out.

What would you suggest to your friend? Get to know the guy a little better maybe? It will be a while before the other guy (if ever) asks her out because of the "bro code" (never date your friend's girl). What would be her best path.

[vanityfair5]

Originally Posted by WCsweet<3

Alright let's put this in terms similar to your story:

Your girlfriend has decided she want to date this guy only after knowing him for a week. They may have hung out a lot but it has only really been a week that they have known each other. At the same time she has hung out with his good friend (maybe even best friend). The guys are both pretty different but your friend accepts a date from the best friend even though she was only interested in the other one, while he has passed her up so that his friend can date your friend. Now, your friend has only gone on a few dates with this guy but isn't interested although she hasn't really gotten to know him because she was upset that the first guy hadn't asked her out.

What would you suggest to your friend? Get to know the guy a little better maybe? It will be a while before the other guy (if ever) asks her out because of the "bro code" (never date your friend's girl). What would be her best path.

Haha I very much like your analogy and OF COURSE I would suggest to my friend to better get to know this guy before she just gets rid of him. But for how long? I don't know. I've been with them 5 out of 7 nights and I just don't see it working out for me there. I'm a pretty good judge of who I can and can't get along with...I can't lie to myself and pretend I love these girls when I truly know I do not. (And I would also say that to my friend about the guy.) Gut instinct says A LOT, I think.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by WCsweet<3

What would you suggest to your friend? Get to know the guy a little better maybe?

Don't date a guy that you're not interested in; and forget the other guy because there are more than 2 men in the world.

BOOOOOO @ you using this instead of just sticking with the very clear GLO-isms.