Are Black Women Scaring Off Black Men

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I agree 100% with what I bolded.

I disagree with the other. It's the folks who don't love or respect themselves, those are the folks who "know how to screw" but don't "know how" to love anyone else, and this goes for MEN too, not just women. Race doesn't matter.

It is an impossibility to love someone else if you don't love yourself first.

well, i could've gone on & on & on & on & on with my post, but i just wanted to hit on what i thought were the "key" parts. i didn't mean to make it sound like "ALL men know how to love and most women dont", so i apologize for not making myself clear.

HOWEVER, i will ask all you guys this; the image that's been pinned on my beautiful sistas by not only society, but other black men and women (sistas' are LOUD, sistas' are COMPLICATED, sistas' are THIS, sistas' are THAT).......where on earth did it come from? the title of this thread is called "Are Black Women Scaring Off Black Men", so i wanted to keep it on topic. should you guys want to create a thread called "Are Black Men Scaring Off Black Women", i would probably respond to that thread just as much as i am to this thread.

the responses i get from this question is going to be interesting; and please don't tell me that the image just fell out the sky from the backroads of a hick town......lol.