do's and don'ts sophomore pm?

[33girl]

Originally Posted by jjen

ok im rushing as a sophomore next fall and i need some advice. girls have told me not to go out AT ALL. and to completely refrain from partying because sororities will look down at that.

She didn't give a timeline here - it sounds to me like people are telling her not to go out all year.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by 33girl

She didn't give a timeline here - it sounds to me like people are telling her not to go out all year.

I took this to mean that they were telling her not to go out closer to recruitment.

I can't imagine anyone advising a PNM to refrain from going out AT ALL during freshman year.

I can see someone telling you to just be extra careful about partying, especially as a sophomore at an SEC school (mentioned in previous posts).

I mean, as a soph, it's already going to be potentially difficult, why add the problem of going out and getting crazy and becoming "that girl?"

[33girl]

She is a freshman now - that's why I thought they are telling her all year.