Is she pregnant?

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

Sorry if I sound like the asshole in all of this but I am kinda salty at the "she was supposedly on the pill" part.

You are just as responsible as she is.

And me personally, I don't care how much she is supposed to be on the pill, or got tubes tied, looks clean or whatever,

WRAP IT UP!

You liked her enough to go bareback, you like her enough to be responsible if she is having your child.

I chose to ignore that part, since I can't imagine that someone, who ostensibly grew up in the age of AIDS, would have barrier-free sex outside of a committed relationship. I just figured that the condom-wearing was a given, and he was asking that even if something got through, if the Pill would be good protection.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I chose to ignore that part, since I can't imagine that someone, who ostensibly grew up in the age of AIDS, would have barrier-free sex outside of a committed relationship. I just figured that the condom-wearing was a given.

You'd be surprised how careless some people are.

Like the mid-20s "oops baby" discussion in the 16 & Pregnant thread.

I'd like to think that it's a given that women in their mid-20's are smart enough to protect themselves, but they are not.

Same with this kind of thing, I'd like to think that every guy in his mid-20s is going to use protection. Unfortunately, they don't.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

You'd be surprised how careless some people are.

Like the mid-20s "oops baby" discussion in the 16 & Pregnant thread.

I'd like to think that it's a given that women in their mid-20's are smart enough to protect themselves, but they are not.

Same with this kind of thing, I'd like to think that every guy in his mid-20s is going to use protection. Unfortunately, they don't.

Nope, I wouldn't be surprised. I just got home from visiting a little "oops" buddy of mine in the NICU. The difference? Things happen in a committed relationship. After a while, some couples forego barriers. That's understandable.

What I'm talking about is casual sex, or commitment-free sex, without a condom. I'm sure it happens, but in a case like that, pregnancy should be the least of your concerns.

[SWTXBelle]

NO BIRTH CONTROL METHOD IS 100% EFFECTIVE. It is possible to get pregnant while on the pill, or any other birth control.

If you can't discuss how you would handle an accidental pregnancy with your partner how in the world are you going to handle the conversation when you/she turns up in "an interesting condition"?