Our town has a great panhellenic group and many active alumnae. The problem is they all seem to be from the same handful of sororities. My daughter could get lots of recs for those groups, but the three that we don't have just don't seem to be on anyone's radar. She really wants to keep an open mind and doesn't want her pledge class to be full of the same girls she went to high school with but everyone just assumes she wouldn't want to join those groups anyway. On the flip side, I sure wouldn't want a stranger having all that personal information about my daughter that she would need to write a rec.
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