re-rushing as a sophomore @ UF

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by kdlady80

This is true that fairness and sorority recruitment don't always meet.(lol) As I've said, my daughter has a great deal to offer and if she does not recieve a bid to a sorority she will find another outlet to channel her energy and will be fine. There are so many new people and experiences waiting for her and while being in a sorority is great, it is not for everyone so I guess it is just a wait and see proposition.

My best suggestion is to talk to your friends, and women you know who have daughters at the school your gal will be attending, or even similar schools. They can give you really specific and helpful information that a bunch of people on the internet, while well-meaning, simply cannot.

FWIW, I had brunch a few weeks ago with friends who went to UF and the subject of recruitment came up. None of them did the stuff that we typically suggest--some were even juniors and sophomores!!--and it turned out fine for them. Clearly, you should be well-informed, but you can't rely on people who didn't go to UF, or SEC schools, or aren't from the south. Good luck!

[angelove]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

My best suggestion is to talk to your friends, and women you know who have daughters at the school your gal will be attending, or even similar schools. They can give you really specific and helpful information that a bunch of people on the internet, while well-meaning, simply cannot.

FWIW, I had brunch a few weeks ago with friends who went to UF and the subject of recruitment came up. None of them did the stuff that we typically suggest--some were even juniors and sophomores!!--and it turned out fine for them. Clearly, you should be well-informed, but you can't rely on people who didn't go to UF, or SEC schools, or aren't from the south. Good luck!

This is so true! Thanks for mentioning this.