Young & Married

[Zillini]

I don't want to sound harsh. You may be a wonderful person, wife, mother and student and those are where your priorities should lie. Things like new member meetings, chapter meetings, hanging out at the chapter house, late nights pomping homecoming decorations, recruitment and those workshops, swaps with fraternities, fill in the blank isn't where you should be spending your free time now. Spend it with your husband and child. You'll never get these early years of your child's life back, enjoy them while you can. I recently lost a child and I would do anything to have had more time with her.

[Blue Skies]

Originally Posted by Zillini

I don't want to sound harsh. You may be a wonderful person, wife, mother and student and those are where your priorities should lie. Things like new member meetings, chapter meetings, hanging out at the chapter house, late nights pomping homecoming decorations, recruitment and those workshops, swaps with fraternities, fill in the blank isn't where you should be spending your free time now. Spend it with your husband and child. You'll never get these early years of your child's life back, enjoy them while you can. I recently lost a child and I would do anything to have had more time with her.

Zillini, I am so sorry for your loss.

Babygirlash, your little boy needs you. I am an elementary school teacher, and I see so many young children who are desperate for attention because their moms are pulled in so many different directions. Your son will grow up so quickly, that you could blink and you'd miss it. Give yourself the gift of his childhood. Later, when he's a little older, you can investigate community sororities such as Beta Sigma Phi. But for right now, just enjoy your beautiful little boy. JMO