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Young & Married
I am almost done with my degree at a Technical School and whant to join a soroity. I am only 22 but married with a son, can I still join???
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As far as NPC sororities, you must be in a 4 year degree prgram to be eligible to join.
As for the NPHCs, I am unsure of their rules. I want to say that they are the same as ours, but I am not sure. |
This is a non-collegiate sorority that you might consider looking into:
http://www.betasigmaphi.org There are others out there also, but this is the one that I know of. |
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No matter what type of sorority you're interested in pursuing, do you really have the time to commit to a sorority? Successful completion of a new member program requires a lot of time (new member meetings, perhaps chapter meetings, rituals, bonding activities with your pledge sisters and older sisters, service projects, etc). Being the parent of a small child also requires a lot of time. Your studies, and later your job, will also require a lot of time. I don't mean to discourage you, but do think about the time factor. |
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There is an active poster...um onetimesbx. I'm not sure about the eligibility requirements for her sorority...
http://www.sigmabetaxi.org/ From their FAQs: What is Sigma Beta Xi Sorority? Sigma Beta Xi is an organization, which started with the vision for true sisterhood between all women but specifically for women with children. |
I will say that I was 24, engaged and had a two year-old daughter, taking 17 credits and working PT. It was STRESSFUL, and most of all, TIRING, HOWEVER...you must understand there will be sacrifices, for everyone involved unfortunately. I was fortunate to have my parents and fiance around to care for my daughter in my absences.
As far as your schooling situation - if it is a 2-yr program, most organizations require you be matriculating at a 4 yr college/university with certain GPA. No one can discriminate because you have a child, and I do know of one that is geared towards women with children, I believe the link is posted above me somewhere. Also - when you say you're almost done, how far away from done are you? If you transfer to a 4 yr, you can still do undergrad for some sororities, or, as another option, you can pursue a graduate/alumnae chapter after you graduate - although I'm not sure how every GLO works... different requirements for different organizations. Please don't get discouraged about pursuing the organization of your choice. If it is in your heart, don't settle for second best or an organization that you don't want to be a part of - you won't be able to give it your all, and therefore not able to benefit from the entire experience. Your boundaries? You can overcome them if you are pursuing something that you really really have sitting inside your heart. Trust me. Hope this helps |
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It's correct.
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Perhaps some organizations out there might have policies where they say they won't discriminate against someone because they are a parent, but I've never heard of one. Feel free to post that info if you have it. |
Okay, although I am a historian, and an anthropologist and like reading... Laws... eh... not until they apply to me. I appreciate and applaud all you have accomplished in the legal field, but it's really not that serious to research and post.
I stand corrected. But there are organizations that do not discriminate based on status as a parent... one was mentioned earlier that gladly accept mothers and uplift them, and I believe Iota Phi Theta Fraternity, Incorporated was founded by/for non-traditional male students, such as those who were re/entering college a bit older, had children, and were working or in the military. |
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Thank you for your input. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. =)
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Thank you everybody for your posting your comments. Fortunatly for me I live with my husband and also have all of my family around me that supports my decision on trying to join a soroity. They offer to help with my child through out my college period. I am going to purse to the soroity that I do choose. The worst thing that could happen is they say NO. But I will never find that out until I try!!! I think that by being married to my childs father would be a postive that a soroity would look at, not a negiative. Thank You all!!!
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