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Originally Posted by AGDee
See, that's the whole thing. For me, it's EASIER to do it on my own... so much easier than dealing with "him" on a daily basis. Of course, he's as dedicated a father as he is capable of and we do have 50-50 custody so my kids firmly have two active and involved parents. Plus, I get the "alone time" that I so badly need.
I do think that two marriages was enough and I can't imagine doing it again. I think I've lost all credibility with saying those vows! I ascribe to the notion that I would do best in a long term relationship with His and Hers houses right next door to each other! That would suit me fine.
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Breathe!!! Talk about EASY!!! I can see how devoted you are... And hey, be devoted to some who appreciates it--YOURSELF!!!
Do you think it is a matter of "credibility"? Pardon me if I am overreaching here, but you have boundaries and space that you hold dear and are important to you. Apparently, it sounds like your relationships just did not respect that aspect about you!!!
So, if I may, can your next love gain your respect and for your boundaries?
His and her houses might be one way, but is that realistic?
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