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Old 01-12-2009, 07:00 PM
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Along the lines of a two way street...

Have you considered the situation from your sisters' perspective?

"GreenEyedGirl" seems nice, and we say 'hi' to her when we pass on campus. However, it doesn't seem that she likes us very much, as she always chooses to hang out with others when we have scheduled events."

In other words, you feel rejected and left out by them. I would suspect that they feel the same way about you.

As everyone else has said- you have to meet them half-way. How do you expect them to get to know you if you are never around?

Why not make chapter events a priority this semester and see what happens. That means that you may have to do the asking, inviting, organizing, whatever. It also means that you need to attend every event that does not conflict with class. I suspect your tune will change by May.

In addition, consider there will be a whole new crop of members this fall.
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