To Old to be an AXiD?

[AlphaXi_Husky]

I agree with what most have said, however I disagree with Dionysus. I'm about the same age as you and serve as an advisor for a chapter and I don't feel at all like it's babysitting. It's definitely more than just being friends though, since you're offering guidance and support, but I certainly don't feel like a babysitter. I will say I'm not Chapter Advisor, which I think is more responsibility than some of the other advisors, but being an advisor can be a great way to bond with chapter members.

However, since it sounds like you're really just looking for more social interaction with chapter members while on campus, then I would not suggest becoming an advisor. Your best bet is probably joining an active alum association and from there participating in events where you meet both collegians and alums. Hopefully after meeting people you'll be able to find collegians to hang out with around campus.

[AXiDTrish]

I started advising at 25 (graduated at 24 from a different campus). If you are looking to meet sisters, sure go for it. Would I join active chapter, probably not, but I would embrace the women. You may find that doing something like advising offers you the sisterhood you are looking for. Advising was a Godsend to me. It allowed me to still be actively involved with AZD, but I can live my own life at the same time. Plus, watching the girls grow up in chapter is an amazing experience.

[AXi1257]

I would suggest getting involved on an alum basis. Volunteering for advisory boards, corp boards, etc. I have gotten back into helping out my chapter and I'm now almost 36. I love seeing how much has changed, yet how some things have stayed the same (and that is a good thing). But, I couldn't imagine being an active and living in a house w/ 51 other women and also having a housemother again. EEK!!

[PinkRose1098]

I'd say get involved on the alum level as an advisor, housing corp member, or with the local alumnae association. You might find that you have as much in common with these women as you did with you chapter sisters the first time you were an undergrad. What ever you decide I wish you the best of luck.

[Dionysus]

Originally Posted by AlphaXi_Husky

I agree with what most have said, however I disagree with Dionysus. I'm about the same age as you and serve as an advisor for a chapter and I don't feel at all like it's babysitting. It's definitely more than just being friends though, since you're offering guidance and support, but I certainly don't feel like a babysitter. I will say I'm not Chapter Advisor, which I think is more responsibility than some of the other advisors, but being an advisor can be a great way to bond with chapter members.

I was kind of exaggerating. It appears that the OP is looking for people to socialize with. If one becomes an advisor, their role would be more of guide than a friend.