I need serious advice on my relationship

Originally Posted by Gretchen W

Seems simple, but here's where the problem comes in. He has a fraternity brother he already rooms with, but he wants me to move in too, because the rent would be less for me. I've met his friend a few times, and he seems to be really nice, but I think I would feel kind of awkward living with two guys. My question is do you guys think I should move in after graduation, or do you think it's a bad move? Do any of you live with your significant others? What's it like?

I'm posting this on here because over the years that I've posted on greekchat, I've seen great advice given.

Thanks.

Cute sockpuppet name!

I still have my own place, but am at my BF's apartment quite often. I have my own drawer, toothbrush, etc. here, but there are many instances where I am thankful that I still have my own home. Of course he and I haven't been dating as long as you two have, so us moving in together isn't in the plan anytime soon.

Living with two guys might be hard. While he's a guy you get along with, that may very well change once the two of you are under the same roof. In the event you and your boy get into an argument, there's no guarantee he'll stay out of it -- and you know he'll take his side. After all, they're brothers.

True, you'd be saving $$$ on rent and living expenses, but personally? I wouldn't do it. I'd wait awhile. Spend some time with your BF and his brother and see how living with them is like before you commit to moving in.

Good luck with your decision, whatever that may be!