Rush Crush

[Benzgirl]

Originally Posted by TSteven

. And that a chapter is basically allowed to say something like "Hey, we want you..."? (i.e. A more one on one informal type of rush.)

"I want you". We were always told that "we" was inappropriate

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

"I want you". We were always told that "we" was inappropriate

I don't think that was meant literally.

[TSteven]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

"I want you". We were always told that "we" was inappropriate

I understand that.

But I thought that generally speaking, during COR a chapter could *in theory* go up to one single girl and say "We want you. Here is a bid." Unless the campus required it, the girl - *in theory* - would never have to have signed up for or come to any event by the chapter. In other words, the structure and rules that apply for formal recruitment, are not *required* in COR.

In this particular scenario, Deepher4Life's campus had a formal recruitment. Then (after formal was completed) the campus panhellenic decided to have a "partially structured COR recruitment". So I am wondering do the "rules" that govern formal, continue to govern after formal is over. I would think that every chapter would have to sign on for this to happen. Otherwise, they are allowed - per NPC rules - to COR as best fits their chapter.