question on depledging

Originally Posted by MR808

Whats so surprising about her asking for her friend? Why would she be embarassed to ask for herself--this is the internet, no one knows her or will ever see her anyway.

Anyway, to answer your question-- I believe your friend can still pledge another sorority as long as she wasn't initiated into the one she depledged.

This is GreekChat. No matter how anonymous you think you are, if people really wanted to find out who you are...they will find out who you are.

Unless you know the membership policies of the NPC sorority she's trying to depledge and the Latina sorority she's trying to join, I'd refrain from commenting on what she can or cannot do.

[tnxbutterfly]

Originally Posted by OTW

This is GreekChat. No matter how anonymous you think you are, if people really wanted to find out who you are...they will find out who you are.

Unless you know the membership policies of the NPC sorority she's trying to depledge and the Latina sorority she's trying to join, I'd refrain from commenting on what she can or cannot do.

Exactly. It could be that the Latina sorority that she tries to join, might not let her since she was a member of a NPC sorority

[OhSoVeryLadylike]

Because this is GC...that's why she MAY be saying FRIEND. But REALLY does it matter, what's the point in suggested that we KNOW it may be her...just share the advice and keep it kicking

[AlphaFrog]

To the original poster - please stop worrying about your friend's Greek life, your Greek life, and Greek life in general and start worrying about your Grammar life. Please. I know people seem to think chat-speak is acceptable everywhere, but the OP doesn't even qualify as acceptable chat-speak.

[violetpretty]

Regardless of whether the OP is asking for herself or her friend, there is no simple answer. Although technically, there might not be a rule that the Latina sorority cannot take depledged members of NPC groups, but that doesn't mean that the members of this chapter of the Latina sorority in question would offer membership to the woman. They may perceive the situation as the woman being indecisive or that they don't want to be a "second choice" to an NPC group (even though it may or may not be the case).