My situation is complicated. I need some input.

DSTCHAOS · #1 01-09-2008, 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

Let me just say for the record, as teh gay, I do not think coming out in a chapter meeting is necessary. It is a lot of drama for nothing. I mean seriously, for all the breeders on the board who think it's a good idea -- for who, you? Nah.... it makes a big deal out of a situation which is really nobody's business to have an opinion on.

I agree and LOL @ "breeders."

ColorfulCre8ion · #2 01-09-2008, 09:15 PM

Wow! I am really sorry for what you are going through. I've been through something similar you can read it here: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...olorfulcre8ion

But anyway, I hope that you get the support you need. Remember why you wanted to join your organization and keep those goals in mine.

Something that I always remember and hold true to... YOUR LOYALTY FALLS TOWARDS THE ORGANIZATION AND NOT THE MEMBERS!

Stay postive

nate2512 · #3 01-09-2008, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ColorfulCre8ion

Something that I always remember and hold true to... YOUR LOYALTY FALLS TOWARDS THE ORGANIZATION AND NOT THE MEMBERS!

That is so self centered. Not having any loyalty to you fellow brothers or sisters is completely ridiculous.

Senusret I · #4 01-09-2008, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by nate2512

That is so self centered. Not having any loyalty to you fellow brothers or sisters is completely ridiculous.

It's not self-centered at all if you understand (or at least try to understand) the cultural differences between your type of fraternity and her type of sorority.

DSTCHAOS · #5 01-09-2008, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

It's not self-centered at all if you understand (or at least try to understand) the cultural differences between your type of fraternity and her type of sorority.

That and the "organization superceeds individual members" mentality does not mean that you don't bond with other members. It means that we are not disillusioned if a chapter or other type of experience with members is negative. Out of thousands of members, a few don't stop the party.

nate2512 · #6 01-09-2008, 09:55 PM

I apologize for failing to see that.