Communication

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by Infamous12

If the gf doesn't know about you and you don't know about her, there could be a problem.

I have several very close guy friends that I talk to regularly, they've known me for years and we call each other brother and sister. My boyfriend has met them and knows them all. He also has similar persons in his life, whom I've met and/or heard about. Do I trust him? Totally. Does he trust me? Yes. Is it cool to text, yeah....in moderation.

HOWEVER, if the texting were to interfere with our relationship (read: texting said person while at dinner with me, running to the phone just to chat while with me, etc. or vice versa) that lead me/him to believe that something not-so-kosher is going on.

When you say, texts regularly, does that mean - all day? Once a day? Once a week?

I know about her, basic information, but I don't know if she knows about me. When I say regularly, I mean everyday. Some days only 3 or 4 other days 50 - 80, maybe more.

Originally Posted by nikki1920

I need more back story.

I mean, what are you texting to each other? If you were his gf, would you want those texts to be shown to you, would you be ok reading them? If not, there is your answer.

How long has the girlfriend been around?

and finally, if you feel guilty about it, then stop.

Mostly random stuff. Different topics for different days. I wouldn't mind if she read, I stand by everything I say. Most of the conversations are jovial but there have been a few she might find questionable.

She's been with him for 2 or so years now.