For the ladies.. "Why aren't you married?"

[Dionysus]

Originally Posted by tld221

I'm single.
I'm young.
I have no kids.
I have no desire to get married.

Originally Posted by tld221

maybe "bitter" is a harsh word.

i agree with most of what yall have said. and honestly, IF the right person comes along and im feeling it, sure, break out wedding bells. and i dont base my decision of not wanting to be married on just my parents' failed marriage, but off other marriages - grandparents, uncles, cousins, family friends, etc. its hard to imagine a happy marriage for myself because i didnt grow up around it. in similar fashion, i cant see myself having children and enjoying it because ive never seen any joy from parents that i know. it always seems more like a job than a joy, a burden rather than a blessing.

Once again, we are ---->here<------

I would like to add that I find the concept of marriage itself unappealing, even if they are successful. I cannot IMAGINE staying with ONE person for REST of my life! I would die of boredom, or do a hell a lot of cheating.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

Once again, we are ---->here<------

I would like to add that I find the concept of marriage itself unappealing, even if they are successful. I cannot IMAGINE staying with ONE person for REST of my life! I would die of boredom, or do a hell a lot of cheating.

LOL but honesty is a great thing.