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12-24-2007, 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle
YES, YES, YES! You read my mind  |
Everyone has their own baggage.  We deal with it, accordingly.
Most people are so afraid of being hurt or disappointed. After they've scared all the potentials away and ruined enough relationships, they say "there are no good men/women out here" or "God meant for me to be unmarried (which is possible however it often isn't)."
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12-27-2007, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Everyone has their own baggage. We deal with it, accordingly.
Most people are so afraid of being hurt or disappointed. After they've scared all the potentials away and ruined enough relationships, they say "there are no good men/women out here" or "God meant for me to be unmarried (which is possible however it often isn't)." |
This is sooooo true. When I decided that God didn't mean for me to get married, that's when I found my mate (or my mate found me) and it was just around the time that I was really starting to get used to the idea of not getting married. So I truly believe now that when God is ready, he will send you someone just for you. Until that time, live life to the fullest and work on becoming the best you that you can be. You should be a whole and complete person before you marry another whole and complete person anyway so if you have things to work on (and most of us do), maybe this is the reason you are still single.
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Last edited by rhoyaltempest; 12-27-2007 at 01:28 PM.
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12-27-2007, 01:40 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Trying to stay away form that APOrgy! :eek:
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Originally Posted by tld221
I'm single.
I'm young.
I have no kids.
I have no desire to get married.
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Originally Posted by tld221
maybe "bitter" is a harsh word.
i agree with most of what yall have said. and honestly, IF the right person comes along and im feeling it, sure, break out wedding bells. and i dont base my decision of not wanting to be married on just my parents' failed marriage, but off other marriages - grandparents, uncles, cousins, family friends, etc. its hard to imagine a happy marriage for myself because i didnt grow up around it. in similar fashion, i cant see myself having children and enjoying it because ive never seen any joy from parents that i know. it always seems more like a job than a joy, a burden rather than a blessing.
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Once again, we are ---->here<------
I would like to add that I find the concept of marriage itself unappealing, even if they are successful. I cannot IMAGINE staying with ONE person for REST of my life!  I would die of boredom, or do a hell a lot of cheating.
Last edited by NinjaPoodle; 12-27-2007 at 02:40 PM.
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12-27-2007, 02:41 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: On the beach. Well....not really but near it. :0)
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Originally Posted by Dionysus
Once again, we are ---->here<------
I would like to add that I find the concept of marriage itself unappealing, even if they are successful. I cannot IMAGINE staying with ONE person for REST of my life! I would die of boredom, or do a hell a lot of cheating. |
LOL  but honesty is a great thing.
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