living together before marriage: opinions?

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I currently live with my b/f of over a year (my longest and only live-in). I think for us, the decision was mutual and has been really beneficial. Like sageofages said, it helps work out the kinks. We both know that at some point a ring and the rest is coming, but at this point everyone basically considers us married. I think determing when you're ready depends on you. For us, it was just natural and I spent more time at his campus apt than my dorm room before we got our own place. Although it is a big step, I think it is worth it in the long run. I'd rather have a failed b/f than a failed marriage.