I find it most useful to give men a list of a few things ie:
For our anniversary/christmas/hannakuh/birthday...you get it
I want: Item A, Item B, or Item C
Then, he knows exactly what to look for, there is still a little bit of suspense involved and everyone leaves happy.
I know it's not as 'romantic' as most people like, but it works for me pretty well.
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