To Tell or not to tell

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Unless you've known your friend 10x longer than they've known their SO, NO WAY should you tell them, and even then, only if it happens more than once, and is extremely serious.

My mom's sister's husband confessed to her that he'd been cheating, and my mom told her sister, and her sister didn't believe her for YEARS. Of course, when my aunt finally caught up with the rest of the world and found out, she felt like a pretty big ass.

most people aren't satisfied unless evidence falls flat in thier lap...

and then there is Cheaters.

[Fleur de Lis]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

most people aren't satisfied unless evidence falls flat in thier lap...

I think this is right on. Unless the BF asks you about it or there is obvious evidence she is cheating, I'd keep it to myself.

However, I keep thinking of that line from Office Space:
Peter: I get the feeling Amy might be cheating on me.
Friend: Yeah, I get that feeling, too...

[AlwaysSAI]

See, I think you need to be more specific about what being "hit on" really specifies.

If it was just a sleezy pass I would brush it off.

But, I once had a guy tell me he wanted me to take his virginity and he called it hitting on me....

I also had another guy who grabbed my breast and called it hitting on me........

Oh, and I had one smack my ass too....

So, yeah, I think specification is needed.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI

See, I think you need to be more specific about what being "hit on" really specifies.

If it was just a sleezy pass I would brush it off.

But, I once had a guy tell me he wanted me to take his virginity and he called it hitting on me....

I also had another guy who grabbed my breast and called it hitting on me........

Oh, and I had one smack my ass too....

So, yeah, I think specification is needed.

SAI..i was leaving it broad just to kind of see what people would say

Ok...let's be a bit more specific....you all are at a party and the s/o in question says something to the effect that they have had their eye on you and and started aggresively flirting and even said something like "let's hook up sometime..just for drinks' but you can see that there may be more going on.......take it from there....