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Originally Posted by gem_star17
you all have good points and have made me consider options that i didnt even know were possible ( like disagreeing with is brothers). i guess i just didnt know how much he could do for me and i just wondered if a lot of fraternities were this possessive with their members. now, we only see each other once every 2 weeks (because everytime i see him i think of his brothers) yet his brothers STILL insist on tagging along and accusse me of being selfish when i say no. after awhile, it made me worry i was really hurting their fraternity. despite what it may seem, thats the last thing i want to do.
"If it's been this way for years... I really don't understand why you've stuck around for so long." we're about to graduate and he keeps assuring me things will be different once we graduate. i remember how great things were before he joined so i want to believe him.
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Say what? You only see him once every 2 weeks? That's crazy. I don't understand why he lets his brothers essentially control his relationship. I hate to break it to you but things won't be different after you graduate. He sounds like the type of guy who is easily manipulated by people. This is a guy who won't even stick up for his girlfriend of 3 years! There will be some other factor in his life controlling him in the future - his boss, his job, etc. Are you prepared to deal with that forever? If not, break up with him.
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