you all have good points and have made me consider options that i didnt even know were possible ( like disagreeing with is brothers). i guess i just didnt know how much he could do for me and i just wondered if a lot of fraternities were this possessive with their members. now, we only see each other once every 2 weeks (because everytime i see him i think of his brothers) yet his brothers STILL insist on tagging along and accusse me of being selfish when i say no. after awhile, it made me worry i was really hurting their fraternity. despite what it may seem, thats the last thing i want to do.
"If it's been this way for years... I really don't understand why you've stuck around for so long." we're about to graduate and he keeps assuring me things will be different once we graduate. i remember how great things were before he joined so i want to believe him.
Last edited by gem_star17; 10-29-2007 at 12:30 PM.
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