I hate my boyfriend's fraternity

[SydneyK]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

If these guys are saying rude things to you, you need to let him know so he can address the issue with his brothers.

I agree that her bf needs to know what his brothers are saying to her. However, I think she should address the rudeness herself before sending her bf in. Then, if the brothers don't respond positively, her bf should approach them. But it's her battle first.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by SydneyK

I agree that her bf needs to know what his brothers are saying to her. However, I think she should address the rudeness herself before sending her bf in. Then, if the brothers don't respond positively, her bf should approach them. But it's her battle first.

The dudes say obnoxious things in the background when they're on the phone. Her boyfriend knows that they're saying things, even if he doesn't know everything they're saying to her all the time. The fact that he lets just a little slide, let's me know that he doesn't value the relationship and is immature. He should've cussed them out years ago and worked on salvaging his relationship rather than trying to keep the peace with his fraternity brothers (who probably aren't his friends, anyway).