At the End of My Rope!

[Fleur de Lis]

Originally Posted by LatinaAlumna

^Yes, I think it is a matter of pride and low-self esteem on her part. Bad combination.

I heard a quote on Oprah that says you marry a person who tells you what you already think about yourself, which I think is so true. Combined with the family history, it sounds like she won't leave him without some serious intervention and professional counseling. I know her situation is breaking your heart, but honestly she has probably pushed everyone so far away, the best thing you can do is enjoy your healthy relationships and be there for her if she decides to take action.

I am so proud of friend #2 and glad you saw the situation resolved!

[LatinaAlumna]

Originally Posted by Fleur de Lis

I heard a quote on Oprah that says you marry a person who tells you what you already think about yourself, which I think is so true. Combined with the family history, it sounds like she won't leave him without some serious intervention and professional counseling. I know her situation is breaking your heart, but honestly she has probably pushed everyone so far away, the best thing you can do is enjoy your healthy relationships and be there for her if she decides to take action.

I am so proud of friend #2 and glad you saw the situation resolved!

I think all of you are correct--there isn't a whole lot the rest of us (her friends and even family) can do anymore, but I will continue to pray. I do think we should try to have an intervention with her, but that will be hard to accomplish given that she's rarely "allowed" to go outside of her home.