Gentlemen, how can we ladies honor you?

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

You are free to feel the way you feel. I do not think you are wrong for feeling this way given your explanations. I greatly appreciate that myself.

But without any understanding or explanation, I am left to be confused. I am unable to do read facial expressions on GC, then all I have left is to request clarification.

Thank you for your remarks, they will be considered for an event I was attempting to plan considering GC men's ideas.

The one we use to have for the Undergraduate Chapter I use to be the graduate advisor for would have the "Tribute to the Black Man", which was a lovely event telling Black men that we love them, cherish them and hope the best for them. The gentlemen truly enjoyed it. We dressed up very nicely and provocatively, serving them a healthy dinner.

I was thinking I could upgrade it to include ALL men, and have a fully supportive event they, their friends and family would enjoy.

I am sorry for considering the better judgment of GC gentlemen and wasting your time.

I don't think that it was a waist of time at all. You said that you held an event that was a "Tribute to the Black Man". The things that were done at that event could be extended to all men.

We men are fairly simple creatures. We don't get all riled up and excited about big extravagant things we will reallly appreciate the little things. Example: 9/10 when I go home to visit my parents my dad will have some random snack that he knows that I like. Makes my stay all the better. He does a similar thing for my sister.

But to try to answer your question, if you know the group of men then I suggest treating them to a spa session. This is rarely something a guy would do for himself but he would definitely go for it if it was a gift, or at least I would.