Need Advice

[flower3]

No her roomie did not go through Rush. She new before hand that my D would be participating and at the time seemed to be O.K. Her mother even wrote my daughter a rec for her sorority. I am sure they will work things out in time and I am probably over reacting. But I plan to offer the advice that everyone has given me and maybe it will work.

[flower3]

I meant to say knew. The heat is finally getting to me.

[couggirl]

Originally Posted by flower3

No her roomie did not go through Rush.

Her mother even wrote my daughter a rec for her sorority.

I would wonder if now roomie is rethinking going through recruitment. Sometimes kids/teens do things to be very apart from their moms/parents and now (maybe?) roomie is rethinking her choice to not rush and kinda of acting out. I have known people who say over and over that they don't want to do something but then finally find out that they really wanted to do the thing that they were so adamently against to being with.

And I agree with the middle school maturity here, but i have meet a lot of people in my life who still have a middle school maturity level. I think going to college is fun, but also scary and might be overwhelming. (This is in agreement with what other people have said, but i just wanted to agree.) If they just began school I thinkt giving it time might be the best solution and for your daughter to not push anything too much. i would suggest being friends by her and roomie setting times were they can do things together and I would say during these times not bring up sorority because that might tick roomie off.